Body image and Twilight cosplay

Cosplaying Alice Cullen has given me so many amazing opportunities in life. I’ve been able to travel to beautiful locations in the United States, made friendships that will last a lifetime, and explored the part of me that loves to perform and meet new people.

Unfortunately, there is a downside. And I don’t think I’m the only one who feels it.

Whether we like it or not, cosplay puts a set of expectations – both internal and external – on the person wearing the costume. Once you don that costume, you automatically open yourself up to the thought – and even criticism – of other people.

Here’s some feedback members of the Olympic Coven alone have gotten:

Your Rosalie isn’t thin or pretty enough to be the most beautiful woman in the world.

Your Edward looks old.

Your Bella only looks like Bella from behind.

Your Jacob isn’t muscular enough. Shouldn’t he have a six pack?

Yeah – it’s petty. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

I’ve received my fair share of criticism, too. At one point or another, I’ve been called weird-looking, disgraceful, ugly, and even compared to a “naked mole rat.” Commenters on the Internet – especially anonymous ones – can be particularly cruel.

But you know what? They have absolutely nothing on what I say to myself.

My own worst enemy.

Everyone knows what Alice looks like: short and delicate, with fine features. Pixie-like, with the grace and carriage of a dancer. Fashionable to the point that anyone without a Cullen-sized bank account can barely compete.

And to be honest, I struggle to keep up with that expectation.

Before I started cosplaying as Alice, I never thought about my height or my frame – whether I was short or small enough to play this character. I was just me. I never thought about the lines forming around my eyes and whether or not I looked too old to play a perpetually youthful vampire. I never thought about whether or not my own clothes were nice enough to wear during episodes of Dear Bella. I never worried about my weight and what people would think of me if I gained 10 pounds between events.

I think about those things all the time now – whether people think I’m too tall to play a character who’s 4’10 when I’m nearly 5’3. Whether people will notice if I return to Forever Twilight in Forks and I’m not as thin as I was the year before. Whether my skin looks bad and can’t be fixed with layers of vampire makeup. Whether I’m not well-groomed enough to portray someone who’s supposed to be perfect. And that’s just the beginning. It goes on and on.

I’m not an athlete, or a dancer. Do I have any business playing this character? Are people disappointed when I don’t showcase amazing choreography at events?

My teeth aren’t straight enough. Should I get Invisalign?

Maybe my nose isn’t small enough. What are my options?

How young is too young for Botox? For fillers?

How quickly can I lose weight for the next event without being unhealthy or dangerous?


Call me crazy if you want to, but these are all actual thoughts that have gone through my head. And believe me, it’s something I still struggle with, no matter how many compliments I receive.

When I think about it, it isn’t cosplaying Alice that made me feel this way. Not really.  I always had the capacity to think like this. It just came out when my image became something that people could broadly critique, whether it’s online or whispered in corners at events.

But like I said, I’m not the only one who feels this way. Ashley Greene surely felt it, too. People told her she wasn’t small or delicate enough to play Alice, and the result was a visible weight loss that you could track from film to film.

I feel it.

Beautiful actresses feel it.

And you might feel it, too.

What I really want people to know is that if they ever have days where they hate themselves or don’t feel good enough, they aren’t alone. And maybe this year will be the year that we finally see our own worth and stop worrying about what other people think of us.

Here’s hoping.



  1. This post breaks my heart. I have been a huge fan of yours since 2011 and I even traveled to see you and the Olympic Coven at Forever Forks in 2014 but didn’t have the guts to say hi (way too shy because you are the perfect Alice to me and I felt like I was meeting a star). It makes me sick to think people would criticism you and the Coven. You guys bring Twilight alive for me. You guys are all amazing!!! People who are critical often have their own demons. Don’t take on their negativity. You are a bright star among the darkness.

    1. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment. It made me feel really good. 🙂 If you’re coming back for FTF 2017, I really hope you say hi!

      And you’re right – people who are critical often do have their own demons. I try to remember that, but it can be hard when their criticism reflects your own thinking.

  2. I have been lucky enough to have the opportunity to get to know you and the whole Olympic coven over the years. You all are so amazing, kind, beautiful and caring. Reading this made me sad that people can be so cruel behind the computer screen. I love all of you and hope that you know that I think your an amazing person and Alice. Lots of love and rainy day hugs being sent to you.

  3. You are beautiful and I think you portray Alice beautifully. These people who criticise you and the rest of the ones who cosplays the olympic coven are crazy, They dont realise that you are all trying to bring the characters to life where normal people can interact with their favorite twilight characters and you guys are doing a wonderful thing. Who are they to criticise? Jealous maybe? Who knows? Just keep doing what your doing and let the haters hate because there are enough people out there who appreciat what you are all doing that they outnumber the haters! You are all amazing! Keep up the good work for the true twilight fans! We love you all!

  4. Ugh internet Trolls! If it makes you feel better I’ve been told i’m a “Fat ugly bitch” on my blog, despite not having a single picture of me on my site lol. It literally means nothing

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